L0VE iS THE BEST FEELiN AND THE W0RST PAiN

ALFRED LLOYD TENNYSON WROTE : " I HOLD IT TRUE WHATEVER BEFALL; i FEEL iT WHEN i SORROW MOST, TIS BETTER TO LOVE AND LOSS THEN TO NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL" ...


THE DEFiNiTi0N OF LOVE IS : AN iNTENSE EFFECTiON OR CONCERN FOR ANOTHER PERSON; A BELOVED PERSON ; OR TO THRiVE ON OR NEED A PERSON.


NOW i DONT KNOW ABOUT YOU BUT iVE HAD INTENSE AFFECTiON FOR MiKKYD'S COFFEE ... BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN I LOVE OR AM IN LOVE WITH IT. i HAVE A FONDNESS FOR CHEESECAKE , AND i ALSO NEED MY PHONE 24 - 7 BUT I AM NOT iN LOVE WiTH ANY OF THE ABOVE ...


iTS ALWAYS BEEN MiS CONSCREWED THAT THEiR iS A PERFECT "TYPE 0F LOVE" LOVE iS FAR FR0M PERFECT ... S0ME0NE D0ESNT C0ME iN A PACKAGE 0F "PERFECT" BUT TO SOMEONE THEY ADJUST TO BE PERFECT SEEN THROUGH YOUR LOVERS EYES ...

MY POiNT ...

"NEVER TRY TO DEFiNE LOVE. ONCE DEFiNED iS CONFiNED.ONCE CONFiNED--iTS DiES"

LOVE CANNOT BE DEFiNED ... iT MUST BE iNTERNALiZED AND THEN ACTED UPON iN ORDER TO BE UNDERSTOOD... YOU LEARN PiCK UP THE PiECES OF iNDiViDUALiTY AND BEGiN LiVING AS TWO iNSTEAD OF ONE ... THERE ARE NO RULES TO LOVE ... AND THERE IS NEVER A RiGHT OR WRONG ANSWER iN LOVE ... WE ARE ALL INDiViDUALS AND OUR OPiNiONS AND THE WAY WE SEE THiNGS AS HUMANS ARE OUR RiGHTS TO DO SO. JUST BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT AGREE WiTH WHATS BEiNG SAiD DOESNT MEAN YOUR WRONG. YOUR JUST DiFFERENT.

'L0VE iS H0LDiNG HANDS WHiLE ARGUiNG "

WHEN YOUR iN LOVE iTS OKAY TO FiGHT ... EVERYONE SAYS iF YOU HAVE M0RE BAD MOMENTS THAN GOOD ... JUST GiVE iT UP ... i BELIEVE THAT THAT THROUGH OUT DiSAGREEMENTS AND FUDE FiNDS OUT WHO A PERSON REALLY iS ... TO MAKE SUGAR SWEET ... IT HAS TO BE MELTED iN A HOT TEMPERATURE TO BECOME WHAT WE KNOW AS SUGAR . EVERYONE iSNT ALWAYS GOiNG TO KNOW WHAT THE OTHER PERSON WANTS. YOU LEARN TO FiND SOMEONE PERFECT iN YOUR EYES ... LOVE AND RELATIONSHiS iS ALL ABOUT CHANGE AND ADJUSTMENTS...FEELiNGS AND NEW EMOTiONS ... WANTING TO BE HAPPY .. THATS ALL ANYONE WANTS ... TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED ...

THE MAiN KEY TO RELATiONSHiPS iS COMMUNiCATioN !!!!!! YES THAT MEANS YOUR BF/GF SHOULD BE ABLE TO TELL YOU ANYTHiNG .. GOOD/BAD ... ANYTHING ... YOU CANNOT FAULT HONESTY ... iF YOUR MATE TELLS YOU SOMETHiNG THAT HURTS YOU DONT GET MAD AT THEM FOR TELLiNG THE TRUTH ... AT LEAST THEY HAD THE BALLS TO TELL YOU ... NO MATTER WHAT THE CiRCUMSTANCE (CHEATiNG, LYiNG ANYTHING)... GiVE THEM S0ME CREDiT ...


THE SECOND THiNG iS TRUST/HONESTY ... DONT BLOW SOMEONES PHONE UP WHEN THEY GO OUT OR N0T BELIEVE THEM... EVERYONE DESERVES A CLEAN SLATE ... BE HONEST WiTH WHAT YOUR DOiNG 110% OF THE TIME ... AND PLEASE DONT TAKE YOUR LAST FAiLED REALTiONSHiP OUT ON YOUR CURRENT ... GO LiSTEN TO HiS MiSTAKES BY USHER ... iTS iN THE PAST F0R A REASON ... AND WOMAN ... MEN NEED TO BE PLEASED .. HOW EVER YOU WANNA TAKE iT iF Y0UR N0T D0iNG iT S0ME0NE ELSE WiLL .. THAT G0ES B0TH WAYS .. MEN T00 ... Y0U SH0ULD WANT T0 PLEASE Y0UR MAN. WOMAN AND D0 THE THiNGS THAT MAKE THAT PERSON HAPPY AND CONTENT

THiRD iS RESPECT ... THERE NEEDS TO BE A LEVEL OF RESPECT FOR ONE ANOTHER . iF THE OTHER PERSON iS SOMEONE YOU RESPECT THEY WONT GO AND CHEAT AND DO LiL BOY THiNGS

F0URTH EQUiTY ... YOU ARE ONLY 1/2 OF A RELATiONSHiP ... iT TAKES 2 ... TW0 HALVES EQUAL A WHOLE NOT ONE ... SiMPLE YES BUT iTS THE HARDEST THiNG TO THiNK YOUR NOT BETTER THAN YOUR MATE . ..
AND LAST WORD OF ADViCE ...


"JUST BECAUSE SOMEBODY DOESNT LOVE YOU THE WAT YOU WANT THEM TO , DOESNT MEAN THEY DONT LOVE YOU WiTH ALL THEY HAVE "


"LOVE MAKES TiME PASS ... TiME MAKES LOVE PASS "



"A WOMAN HAS GOT TO LOVE A BAD MAN ONCE OR TWiCE iN HER LiFE TO BE THANKFUL FOR A GOOD ONE ... "


LOVE iS BASiCALLY LEARNiNG HOW TO ADJUST ... A BiG BUCKET OF ADJUSTiNG ... iF YOU DONT LiKE CHANGE THEN YOU WONT LiKE LOVE ...

& LAST BUT NOT LEAST ... iF LOVE iSNT THERE .. DONT FORCE iT TO BE ... JUST BECAUSE YOUR COMFORTABLE WITH THE "ROUTINE" DOESNT MEAN YOUR HAPPY ... SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE iN YOUR LiFE FOR A SEASON ... SO LET THAT SEASON PASS ... YOU WiLL KNOW iF iTS RiGHT OR iF iTS NOT ... YOU FEEL iT ... LOVE iS AN iNTENSE EMOTiON 2 PEOPLE SHARE ...

iF YOU HAVE CONTINUUM { ANYTHiNG THAT GOES THROUGH A GRADUAL TRANSITION FROM ONE CONDiTION TO A DiFFERENT CONDiTiON WiTHOUTH AND ABRUPT CHANGES } ANYTHiNG iS POSSiBLE ... THATS WHAT MAKES LOVE GO ROUND ....


-BOBBiE