Im writing about this topic because i dont think some people understand what they are doing to themselves emotionally when it comes to a man or woman in a relationship or wanting to be in one ..
If your situation isn't great how can u invite a man into something that's broken ?You can't be in search of "MR. RIGHT" when your not "MRS. RIGHT" And vise versa ... Everyone is always complaining about how they can't find the right person ... Take a look at yourself. Are you even ready for him/her to be here. Are you happy and content by yourself? Are you independent? Do you have enough time? Are you 100% happy with and where you are in life right now at the age you are? If u answered no to any of those you need to adjust somethings ... Think of all ur expectations in a mate ...
Ok { QUESTION }Now how many of those qualities do YOU possess?You cant expect to find Mister Right/Mrs. Right or the best of the best if your not on point yourself. You need to be happy alone before you can be happy with someone else. Could you honestly date yourself? In the state or position you are in at this exact moment?
80% of relationships fail bc they don't know who they are and what they want . There not satisfied with themselves and want options or want something different. You need to re-evaluate yourself or your situation. Stop complaining and make some progress. Find yourself. Focus on work and whatever motivates you besides a man/woman. And the key to motivation is getting morivated EVERYDAY ... Its jus like the gym ... When you slack you don't make progress. When you stay focused and motivated you see results... its definitly a cause and effect process ... Please dont be afraid to be by yourself ... alone you have more power and time to be where you want to be.
You haveto feel worthwhile and acceptable in your own eyes. The more independentyou are, the better you'll be able to connect with someone else ...
-BOBBiE
COMPLIMENTS OF THE MODEL BRANDON COLLINSWORTH "MR.RIGHT"
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